Okay, confession time: We didn’t mean to make “golfer” the new “it” type but here we are. There's something about the mix of tailored polos, impossible patience, and that whole early-to-bed-early-to-tee energy that has us prioritizing clubhouses over nightclubs.
So, if you like us, are looking to find someone who knows their way around a 5-iron and a dinner reservation, this list is for you.
We’ve rounded up the best places in the U.S. to find your golfer boo—whether you’re manifesting a PGA-level boyfriend, a chic girlfriend who plays Sunday rounds, or someone who just appreciates a well-fitted golf 'fit (bonus points if it’s Fair Liar).
- The Madison Club — La Quinta, California
Tucked in the Coachella Valley, The Madison Club offers pure exclusivity, with members who range from entrepreneurs to athletes and quiet-name billionaires. It’s not just about the course—it’s about lifestyle. Think artful homes, expertly made martinis, and people who dress for après-golf as much as the front nine.
Why it's perfect: Ultra-private and invitation-only, it attracts well-connected, highly social golfers who balance performance with polish.
2. Streamsong Resort — Bowling Green,
A modern golfer’s getaway, Streamsong feels more design-forward than traditional. It’s remote, experiential, and quietly magnetic. The type of place where people bring books, play fast rounds, and order mezcal over the usual vodka soda.
Why it works: Ideal for meeting intentional, relaxed golfers who aren’t just chasing scorecards, but deeper connections too.
3. The Olympic Club — San Francisco, California
Steeped in history and prestige, The Olympic Club is classic old-school with a modern refresh. Members here know the game well and often carry it with quiet confidence and style.
Who you'll find: Legacy members, CEOs, creative professionals, and plenty of San Francisco’s well-dressed, golf-savvy singles.
4. The Hamptons — New York
From Shinnecock Hills to East Hampton Golf Club, the Hamptons have long been a summer playground for golf lovers. Between the weekend scrambles, garden parties, and beach dinners, connections here are made both on and off the green.
When to go: Summer, of course. Don’t skip the brunch circuit—it's where many post-round encounters turn into weekend plans.
5. Scottsdale, Arizona
A top-tier golf destination with no shortage of sunshine, Scottsdale is the place to meet golf-loving young professionals, former D1 athletes, and wellness-obsessed locals who play 36 and still hit Pilates the next morning.
Where to be: TPC Scottsdale during the Phoenix Open. Social, high-energy, and full of fun-loving singles.
6. Bandon Dunes — Bandon, Oregon
For those drawn to nature, intention, and a minimalist pace, Bandon Dunes is a hidden gem. It’s coastal, breezy, and made for those who love the purity of the game—and the people who appreciate it.
Expect to meet: Low-key, loyal, introspective types. If meaningful conversation and long walks between holes sound ideal, this is it!
7. Local Par-3 Courses (Yes, Really)
While exclusive clubs and bucket-list resorts are ideal, there’s something special about the local par-3 scene. Less pressure, more personality. From golf-curious creatives to low-handicap regulars, the vibe is casual, social, and approachable.
Pro tip: Go at twilight. It’s relaxed, golden-hour-lit, and often filled with people looking to unwind—maybe even make a new connection.
The Takeaway
Finding someone who shares a love for golf is less about skill level and more about shared rhythm—early mornings, slow afternoons, and a touch of competitive spirit. Whether it's a country club in California or a par-3 in your hometown, the golf world is full of interesting, stylish people living intentionally.
And if nothing else, it's the perfect excuse to look good, feel good, and maybe meet someone between swings.
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